You Wanna Be What You See

There is a wonderful documentary currently running on Netflix about legendary music producer and director Quincy Jones. During the show, Quincy Jones says, "you wanna be what you see.” I immediately grabbed my journal and made a note. What a beautiful saying that any parent can put on the mirror to look at each morning and evening. When you see that reflection in the mirror, do you want your children to reflect what you see? Quincy was referring to the fact that children want to be what they see in their parents. It’s such a great thought-provoking and heart provoking question to ask daily as part of your planning, gratitude, reflection. It needs a constant presence, to be front of mind in your consciousness, day-in and day-out. It must be a non-negotiable to contemplate "Am I the reflection I want my children to grow to be? Am I setting the standard? Am I setting them up for a successful and fulfilled life?" © GB